Studies have shown that a lot of men are fathers to children that are not biologically theirs. Am not saying you should openly request for a DNA test from your wife and in turn destroy the trust she has for you or even make her hate you in turn in case the result comes back positive.
There are ways of getting this done without the other party knowing.
Identify a test center, collect saliva sample from the child and then secretly go to the test center for the test.
Once you have the result, if its positive, please keep it to yourself and respect your wife and love her more.
Now if the result is negative you can call a meeting and demand for answers. Please do not be violent about it. I understand this is very painful.
Women! please whatever you do as per adultery please do not deceive a man with another's child. If you have done so already, find a way to inform him before its too late for him to get children of his own.
Africans in particular do not joke with such act. As if its not bad enough you had an affair you then bring in a bastard child.
You see, your action is not just against the supposed father, its against the child whose identity comes under question. That child will loose his/her sense of worth and belonging.
It is a difficult confession but its better late than never.
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