Marriage: Not same; Not perfect

You are in a different marriage from your friend or mum or sister or neighbor or anyone you are wishing to have same kind of marriage.

News flash!
Your marriage is not the same as anyone's marriage. No Marriage is perfect hence no marriage is the same.

When two people in love gets married they begin to customize the marriage to their life style. Not all men are homely and can help their wives  with domestic work as some women crave for. You need to study your man and know what works for you to have an healthy relationship.

Even if you date for 20 years before the marriage you will truly not know your partner. You will still have that FISRT YEAR MARRIAGE ISSUES.

Yes! Its normal. You guys are not crazy.

There is a saying that says any marriage that can survive the first 3years will survive many more.

Marriage can be enjoyed with the support of two matured adults. Marriage is not for babies.
Don't get me wrong not all grown men or women over 30years old are old enough for marriage. Some of them are way younger in mind than a 5 year old.

After the marriage you two will not truly know each other till you start having kids and you see the other side of your partner. Being a parent.

Now this is getting interesting, your wife gets pregnant and she is not able to do those sexy things that turns you on and make you want her daily. As if that is no enough she gets fat in the belly and looks like a pregnant frog. Lol!

Don't be afraid, not all pregnant woman looks ugly during pregnancy. But anyone you get is a bonus in the package of marriage.

Money! Finance! Money! is always an issue in marriage. Don't be selfish. Be supportive. Be ready to sacrifice for each other.

Food! Foody! Food!. If you notice your partner is a foody make sure you cook his meal and make sure you cook his favorite meal.
I don't care how busy you think you are,  if you can contract the kitchen cooking out to a caterer then you should be ready to contract the food in the other room to .............
Am sure you don't want that.
So make sure you cook his meal. Learn how to cook if you don't know how. Learn More skills in the other room. Bring more fun to the home. Lol

Always look your best for each other.

Kindly  note that the coming together of two world views in its entirety to form one is what marriage is all about.

Stay tuned for more on this topic!

Omolola